Camille wrote in because her boyfriend dumped her 2 years ago … and then they had sex recently. Now, she’s considering trying to get back together with him. What should she do?
“Hey guys! I was dumped in September by a guy that I was with for more than two years. It was really a hard time for me. During christmas break we met twice during some parties (we were both drunk), and twice we ended up having sex. I’m starting to have feelings again, and I think that he still likes me too. Problem is, I really suffered when he left me. And he behaved like a jerk, breaking up with me in front of a supermarket, talking to me like a total stranger. But even like this, I still want to try something again with him. Should I go for it or not? He’s not my first love but he was the most intense love that I ever had, and I’ve never been that deeply in love before him. I’m really confused about what to do and I really need some advice.” – Camille
@CrazyJewishMom: What’s that thing people say? The definition of insane is when you keep fucking the same fuckboy and expect him to be a prince?
@KateFriedmanSiegel: Do you mean the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results?
@CrazyJewishMom: Yeah, that one. Camille, listen to me. This jackass showed you his true colors. He dumped you and then treated you like trash. A couple drunken nights bumping uglies does not mean he’s going to turn around and start being nice to you now.
@KateFriedmanSiegel: I can’t disagree with that idea. And even in the wake of coming back together, you say you’re not sure if he ‘likes you too.’ Even if he were begging to have you back, I’d caution against diving back in vagina first. But break ups can be messy, and I don’t think the fact that you were drawn back to each other means that you’re necessarily meant to be together, and I think the fact that he’s ambiguous is a bad sign.
@CrazyJewishMom: Camille, listen to me. Cut your losses and get the hell out of there.
You’re lonely? Buy yourself a vibrator. There are so many fabulous sperminators out there, and you’re wasting your time expecting this jerk to start being nice to you. Move on. When someone shows you who they are or how they feel about you….believe them. HE DUMPED YOU.
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